Benita Theory based on sex being 1) spiritual, 2) women gelling, and 3) men fighting. Read below to see why it's important for both genders to NOT sleep around.

[Benita Whitfield]

Benita Theory based on sex being 1) spiritual, 2) women gelling, and 3) men fighting. Read below to see why it's important for both genders to NOT sleep around:

Many recognize Sex as a. Spiritual Act. I agree. Therefore there's also a spiritual explanation to what's going on w/ couples. Cheating and/or couples hooking up without a spiritually cleanse. Whether protection used or not that spiritual energy remains. I heard about this study where the sperm and eggs where put into separate Petri dishes w/ multiples in each dish. The eggs gelled together and the sperms fought each other like war until one survived. With that being said, it makes sense that a man could say to his beloved "YOU blowing ME" because his beloved has gelled with his other sexual partners who also got on his last nerve, maybe were mean, or disrespectful towards him, God forbid worse. Just like in the Petri Dish, His Beloved is now gelled with that. Why you hear men say "Damn! You act like my ex." Then the Beloved woman starts seeing her Beloved Man as uncaring; she says, "You look and act like you don't care". When really that's the war between him and the other male energy on her. Her previous lovers and if she cheating the current ones all marking their territory and fighting. However, he doesn't realize this and wars with his Beloved. That's when you see men yelling towards their Beloved and worse: fighting, mean, disrespectful, irritated, etc. Some women respond to that fight with fight as well. Then the Man goes to get "Peace" sometimes, unfortunately, into the arms of another. Causing the cycle of Spiritual Warfare to continue.

Men don't realize sexing another is damaging, because they quite often say something like: "It's cool. I'm not going to fall in Love with her. I'm a Man I can control my feelings/emotions. She just a fuck!" Yeah well, that woman's energy is on you. And now with your Beloved. If you didn't have any respect for her and you thought she was a THOT/just a quick Fuck for you. Guess what?!?! Now your woman has just taken on that energy. Soon after you cheat/ you'll start to see your Beloved differently. And she will be different, because of the spiritual energy within sex. This is why and how! Spiritual Love becomes Spiritual War.